ICOK will be rescheduled for later in 2020. Please stay safe and adhere to CDC guidelines during this time. We wish all of you good health and well being during the pandemic.


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About ICOK

It’s Complicated OK is the brainchild of the Oklahoma Poly Network (OPN) and Unity Tulsa, LLC.

The idea for a conference focused solely on nontraditional relationships came from the bi-monthly group, It’s Complicated.

It’s Complicated began in December 2017 and has been a great place for discussion of all things outside of the bell curve. The group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120) every 1st and 3rd Monday. It is a therapeutic discussion group for individuals in nontraditional relationships.

About OPN

OPN is a place for the Polyamourous and Poly-Curious of Oklahoma based in Tulsa, OK. We’ve seen tremendous growth in this group over the last 4 years. What started off as a small, cohesive group has blossomed into a diverse community of over 800 people and that thrills us to no end.

Our intention for this group is to create a place where Polyamorous and Poly-Curious people can socialize and carry on discussions about ideas and topics that they might not feel comfortable having in other places. We also see this as a place where advice can be sought and given.

About Unity Tulsa, LLC

Unity Tulsa, LLC provides inclusive, affirming counseling services in Northeastern Oklahoma. Telehealth services are also available statewide.

Sara Griffey, LPC-C primarily works with LGBTQ+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). However, she also has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. 

Sara previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. 

She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. 

Unity Tulsa, LLC operates on a sliding scale fee structure. Rates comparable to insurance co-pays. Kink-Knowledgable, Poly-Friendly.



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Venue Information

Holiday Inn, City Center

17 W 7th St, Tulsa, OK 74119

(918) 585-5898

Attendees can make room reservations through the toll-free number 1-855-914-1748. Please use the group code ICO. Or use the “Book Now” button below.

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